New development happening. H responded back to my father regarding the hiking trip. SS is going. H also informed my Dad that my BIL is shipping out to Iraq in July. I think that this is a positive development (not the Iraq, but the communication H is having with my Dad.) I'm very happy to hear this. Very sad to hear my BIL shipping out...
So, next question. I know that this is going to be a tough thing for my H. I wish I could let him know that I'm here and support him, but, given the current situation, I am doing everything to 'avoid' talking or contacting him that will perpetuate his anger. And since our last email encounter, I am hesitate to say anything to him. What do you think? Should I not say anything, or should I send him a little blurb that I heard about his brother, and am here if he needs me? I don't know if that would be too much, probably. But I don't want him to use it against me either...
I think I'm going to send my BIL & SIL a card, let them know that I support them both, for obvious reasons. This sucks.
