The only thing I can do is to keep the GAL I have started on my own this past year. I am more busy than my H by far with healthy hobbies while he is out at the bars.
The more I do GAL, and act like its no problem that he is out at the bars, the more I often see him gravitate to me. However, every couple days after he always goes back to the bars for a few days straight also.
I seem to be in a stalemate here and need some advise on maybe how to ease his path back home for good. He is still in his apart. and no word of moving yet. We are going on a cruise together on our Aniv. in Aug. so I hope that helps us reunite in a more powerful way.
Any advise on how to make him choose a healthy life as my H over the bar life would be great-but I know thier is no really good answer.
I went to watch his band tonight as usual on Mondays. Their was this girl thier that was really pretty and really excited to see my H and I dont even know her. He sort of blew her off by just nodding, and then he walked me to my car. I left and I know she was still there and My H stays there till close usually. I just hate these scenarios I get put in, and I am challenged constantly to trust him. URHG!!!! TIPPER
