Sandi, Thank you very much for taking the time to read my thread, I appreciate it very much.
Everything you said is exactly what I needed to hear. Your advice will definitely help me a lot. I well re-read this many times until it is burned into my memory. I do realize that I have made many mistakes with her since our S but your advice will help me correct and miss a lot of future mistakes.
One last thing if you don't mind I would appreciate it if you would continue to follow my thread and critique me where and whenever need be.