Hey tal, thank you for your support - I agree, she is a lost soul - I think I finally figured out how to deal with her, and ironically enough a big wake up call has been to read MIC for dummies in the H4H thread - soooooo funny. First - no more following her mood swing - she is gone and that's it. Yesterday she came back from her trip, she asked me to go with her to do grocery (she new she had begs to carry), I accepted and did the guy thing, that is something I like a lot, but I stayed in "my world", she was needy, she asked me to stay for dinner but I didn't feel like... bye bye. I didn't talk R at all - following my goal. Today, she was an all different person, detached and stressed - but I stayed in "my world" I didn't ask what is wrong or if she is upset or anything.
I am working out a lot, and I feel good - too bad I am crazy busy because I feel sizzling hot (I got burned by the sun of Santa Cruz this Sunday) and I would like to go out a bit and meet people... maybe next week
