these are some of the things I need to change for me so I can bring a more healthy person emotionally into ANY relationship. I am not happy with me enough to consider being in a R right now.
The overarching things are changes that H needs to make consistently & regularly enough for me to consider working on a long-term R. I can not change those things.. however, I would like it if he would. If he can not or choses not to, than it is what it is.
The way he & I interacted a year ago was not healthy enough for me to stay in the R we had. We have both changed, however, as I stated earlier, neither of us enough, yet.
I have not changed enough for me to be in any relationship or him, for me to consider being in a R with him even if I was 'healthy'.
Does that make sense?
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
