I've decided I'm bored with the moving forward title. Henceforth, I'm switching to gForce's modus operandi.
Here's the recap - W moved out in October 07 after saying "ILYBINILWY". I did all the wrong stuff, then found DB in November and worked my butt off, but nothing got better. Found out about OM in Jan 08 - PA from summer 07 that had become EA. From end of January to beginning of March there were a lot of back and forths, including W moving back into house for 2 weeks. But she wouldn't put any energy into anything and kept saying she "didn't understand her feelings but couldn't deny them." So she asked me to wait 6 months while she tried a R with OM. I said no. She filed at the end of April. Has continued wanting to have long conversations and continues to cry most of the times we get together.
So, at the end of the last thread we'd just met to sign the separation agreement. It's all notorized, off to the courts, I've been paid for my part of the house and she's off to do field work for 3 weeks.
Where can I get a copy? Geez, you're trying to figure out what road. I'm trying to figure out which map. I hear there is now a Google Maps for the planet Mars. Maybe I should look there.
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread
So there was this artist in Belgium in the early 1900s - Frans Masereel. He was a woodcut artist and would publish series of woodcuts. One was called Passionate Journey and shows scenes from a man's life: his joys, his pains, his loves, his losses. All in 165, usually disconnected, woodcuts. At the end it is not until he destroys his heart (he is shown stomping on it while lightening strikes in the background and clouds billow) that he is free to walk among the stars.
I think you both should take the Road Less Traveled. A beautiful poem by Robert Frost and just to shake up your own lives so you don't fall into the ruts.
Also did you know that you can ask for driving directions on MSN from NYC to say London and it won't bother to tell you that you can't drive there! lol
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I had a mapquest to get where I was going the other day but a guy was reading the directions to me and we still got lost.
A few years ago we were driving to MA pulling the horse trailer. Mapquest didn't tell us the road didn't allow trailers and had low bridges!!! Whew! that was close! and so was that one! and that one too!
I guess the moral of the story is even with a map you might not know where you've been or which is the best route to get where you're going. Just keep the tank full.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
