I just got back from vacation. DD's luck continued, bad unfortunately, but there was highs and lows. We went to Cancun because DD wanted to swim with the dolphins. She loved it. I had to buy the DVD of it. It was so great seeing her "flying" during the foot push. I'll let you know when I get a picture up. We also went snorkeling in the underground river at Xcerat and Senor Frogs at Playa Del Carma, where she was dragged onto the dance floor by the waiters.

The down side was she lost her camera. We got to the hotel and our luggage had been opened and DD's camera was gone. Everything was wet and the only place it rained coming in was Mexico. DD had turned vegan and we got into a little fit when it seemed like she was going to refuse to eat but I shut my trap and she did manage to put some food into herself everyday. I also got dragged to the dance floor the 2nd time at Senor Frog's and came back to see a huge drink in front of DD. I might be a bad mom but I didn't argue and she must have felt bad the next day because she went off to sit awhile the next day at Chichen Itza. She also told me that she needed to have some space and that was impossible in a one bedroom, one bath with 5 people - 4 of them being women. All in all it was a good trip.

Tonight DD zips off to Princeton for rowing camp by herself. I know she is nervous about being alone and excited. Please pray the best, safe trip for her.

H has been introducing DD to GF and her 3 little kids. The youngest is 18 months. I found texts of DD saying she hopes they get married because she would then have brothers and sisters and how wonderful GF was. It is hard not to say anything because it is sooooo a fantasy. H was seeing GF when dragged into C with DD and at that time said he liked being a loner and wanted to be alone. He also didn't want anymore kids so now he's saddling himself with 3! and one only 18 months. GEEZE. I hope the best for him as I see him being 60 in ten years with a teenager. LOL - and he didn't even stick around for his own daughters teen years. That is if he divorces me and marries her and he doesn't seem to be doing that either.


Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.

bomb: Jan 25, 2006
not seen since
DD moved in with H - 9/1/08
H filed for divorce - 11/2008
Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010
still nothing