flip...give it all some time to settle at least 72 hr then go from there. I was so angry with my H I said and did things just so he would leave me the hell alone. As soon as he backed off and gave me some space to figure things out...it was then I realized what the hell I had done. I don't think you going dark and truly GAL would hurt. Let her have some time to be with her thoughts and see if this is what she wants. I thought it was what I wanted...and look at me now. Would do anything to turn things around!!!

take care
christa


H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"