flip...give it all some time to settle at least 72 hr then go from there. I was so angry with my H I said and did things just so he would leave me the hell alone. As soon as he backed off and gave me some space to figure things out...it was then I realized what the hell I had done. I don't think you going dark and truly GAL would hurt. Let her have some time to be with her thoughts and see if this is what she wants. I thought it was what I wanted...and look at me now. Would do anything to turn things around!!!
take care christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
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