I had a wonderful weekend, did what I wanted when I wanted, spent hours at the pool, per the girls request. Worked yesterday but then took the girls to my family's side for dinner. Got them home in time for them to see H when he got off work. They worked for hours on art projects for him. I didn't buy him anything. I wished him a very happy father's day and helped the girls make a cake. H was quiet, but enjoyed his gifts, especially a page long letter my beautiful D6 wrote all by herself.
H went to a family function on his side on Saturday night (engagement party for his closest brother). I am very happy he went. I have done no fixing or encouraging for him to get close to his family again, this has been on his own. I didn't ask how it went either. He needs to be healthy and in a good place to continue to be a good father.
I haven't mentioned his call to OW.
I feel bad for my roommate from college (the one running with me this Saturday). Her and her stbX were in mediation and her H has gotten horrible, refusing to agree, using the kids against her, etc. She had to hire her own attorney. Makes me soooo grateful to be at peace with H, and I pray it stays that way.
