She has been showing all the signals of wanting to be divorced. She has been buying new furniture for her apartment, got a new pet, etc.
I'm beginning to think that what I thought to begin with about why she hasn't filed yet is true afterall: She knows our state is a 1-year wait state, and she is just waiting for that to be up before she files since she would have to wait anyhow. I have a little less than 3 months before the 1 year date arrives.
I've been doing what I have to do, and have not spoken to her since I last wrote that we spoke unless it was specifically about our son.
I've been nothing but nice to her, and she has only seen me while I am in a good mood (not really, but I fake it really well). I've been doing things with our son and just trying to get a life.
For father's day, she sent me a text message that simply said "where is S, happy father's day". I brought him to her apartment sunday night, and she didnt say a word to me. I focused on our son, told him I loved him, gave him a hug, and told him to be good for mommy.
I then looked at her and said "Well, I'm gonna go. It's getting late and I dont want to intrude if you're getting ready for bed."
She said "Okay."
My standard reply is always "take care of yourself" She said "you, too" and gave me a reluctant hug before I walked out the door.
I dont know...if she had doubts about wanting the divorce, why would she be buying new furniture and new pets?
