Hi sweetie .. I dunno your sitch well . I will try to catch up and read when I can.
My H said those exact same words... I am done. Lets get a divorce. This is over. I will NEVER , EVER change my mind. And SEX was a big issue for us. If you and when have time go back and read my old threads... My journey and the advice given may just help your sitch.... Miracles can happen. Also... 1. Even if the sex is eye socket blasting. he will need time to see this is really who you are now. 2. If you rejected him for years he is in extreme pain. A pain unimaginable , no words could describe it enough. 3. Get the SSM book and a highligther. 4. Silly old bear is right on. It isnt about getting laid it is so far deeper than that and when you get it you will be amazed. Or cry for a whole day at how much pain you unitentionally put the man you love in on a daily basis.
