I've decided I'm bored with the moving forward title. Henceforth, I'm switching to gForce's modus operandi.
Here's the recap - W moved out in October 07 after saying "ILYBINILWY". I did all the wrong stuff, then found DB in November and worked my butt off, but nothing got better. Found out about OM in Jan 08 - PA from summer 07 that had become EA. From end of January to beginning of March there were a lot of back and forths, including W moving back into house for 2 weeks. But she wouldn't put any energy into anything and kept saying she "didn't understand her feelings but couldn't deny them." So she asked me to wait 6 months while she tried a R with OM. I said no. She filed at the end of April. Has continued wanting to have long conversations and continues to cry most of the times we get together.
So, at the end of the last thread we'd just met to sign the separation agreement. It's all notorized, off to the courts, I've been paid for my part of the house and she's off to do field work for 3 weeks.
