Are you as "unable to depend on another" challenged as I am?
Absolutely. I'm getting better at asking for help after realizing this was a problem. It's a tough gig to figure out since I'm used to and completely content with doing things for myself. My issue that needs to be fixed is doing too much for others, too dependable. I take on so much that I get frustrated with the load after a while, which is no one's fault but my own. Learning to sit on my hands has proven to be quite a challenge, but I'm getting better.
So, in return I ask you, do you find yourself accommodating others too much (mostly in a R)? I think that is more my problem. Most people don't have an issue with someone taking care of themselves, however, by being too accommodating, I tend to attract men who take advantage of that.