For the Guy with kids and a WW5

[hopeful4her]

H4H

Perhaps some cracks in her fortress are showing through - you know best. Realistic cautious optimism can be very helpful.

I have said this to you before in different words, but keep plugging with what is working. I think I have come to realize that we all have to do what feels right for us individually. There are suggestions, ideas that have worked for others and SO MUCH GREAT ENCOURAGEMENT from all on this board... but at the end of the day, we each have to be satisified that we have done all we would have wanted to do. The chips will fall where they may. STAY POSITIVE as best you can.

Realistic cautious optimism.

I like that. That sounds like me.

I have no idea of what the hell is working or not working anymore. To me, she is up and down and then I don't know if I'm coming or going(although I know which one I'd prefer)

I am just taking each day as it presents itself. I have no expectations. Maybe I do. I expect that she will move out. Maybe the more that I expect it, the less chance that it might happen.

I keep on keeping on.