Grace, I do try to do that with my D as much as possible. Last week my d14 would not come home with me. She doesn't get along with her sisters sometimes and refused to leave my w/om's house. I felt so out of control I almost lost it. I was threating to enter the house and physically pick her up and put her in the car. But my W was telling not to come in. OM just had his back turned and never said a thing. I wanted so bad to go in there and see what he would do. In a way I felt like my W was baiting me to come in. OM has guns in the house and after feeling baited I just left. But on a better note the girls have been opening up with me on their feelings about OM and my W and how they feel she is trying to keep him happy at their expense. They were all with me for Fathers day for the entire day. They talked alot about how OM thinks his kids are perfect and how the boys drive them crazy--I just listened. Sounds like that the OM is not always the happy go lucky guy they all thought he was!


H 42
W 37
M17 T20 years
3 daughters 11,11,14
seperated 11/26/07
EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8
Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon