Hi Ruth! Its been awhile - I sure do miss Al and his Bathsheba stories...but life got busy, we healed some things, learned to live with others, and moved past needing to check in with this board every few hours, didn't we?
I'm glad for you that XH and OW broke up. Mine is still married to his OW, almost 2 yrs and counting. I wonder if all is well in that world, but I will never know until/if they split up.
I am also seeing someone. And I have trouble really getting into it, also. Not sure why...time will tell, I guess.
Take care, Ruthie! I might have to post an update or something. Hope all is well...