I am also reading Eat, Pray, Love, and parts of it were very centering, and helped me to be still during those times.
Me too! There are so many parts of that book that are relevant, aren't there.
Considering traveling w/anyone is challenging, traveling w/ a H who's looking for a fight has to be beyond tricky. You did an excellent job of sidestepping him & enjoying the trip regardless.
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on our last full day of vacation (a beautiful day in the Swiss Alps, no less...) H said several times how much he didn't want to go home.
Sounds like he's really eager to get back when he knows there's going to be lot's of pressure to "put up" now, & we know how everyone just loves pressure!
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it's very hard for me to imagine that H would be deceptive in his R with OW
Funny, it's not hard for me at all. Having an affair is one thing, the reality of actually turning your life upsidedown to be with that person is another.
We'll see, inanycase, you did the perfect thing, made it a trip free of regrets.
