Number 8, still too late for DB to work.

[mkultra]

I may have a slight suggestion. I have put my kids on a Community wait list for child care. It takes a long time but if my toddler gets in, it will save me a lot of money as it is subsidized. I did that with my D when she was 2-5! Check out your local Community College or city. Check to see if you can share a nanny or take in a foreign exchange student who is certified to babysit. Sometimes it is cheaper depending on your hours.

I am bringing my D6 to work with me to save money on daycare. I will also have to file for support but it is so tricky when you are trying to save your marriage because it feels like another piece of paper that goes in the divorce file, right?