I know I have heard about a lot of people that have had luck with online dating. I know - I am difficult - or perhaps good at making excuses... Feel free to call me on it if you see me "creating" justifications to avoid getting out there.
The reasons why I am not comfortable online dating:
(i) I would have to post my picture. And well I feel very uncomfortable doing that... Am sure I will post about The Appearance Issue a few posts down the road...
(ii) I like to get to know people w/o the pressure of having to decide what I want NOW. In my ideal perhaps flawed vision of an R - I want the friendship first. And I move very slowly. I am a slow even among turtles.
(iii) I feel like it is tough for me to get a handle on a person online. You can be whoever you want to be. And once again - that whole pressure about what I want, where am I going... The answer truthfully is I don't know.
Okay - go ahead and poke holes in all I have said! It is very likely I will find something wrong with any suggestion anyone makes right now. But while I may disagree - I do listen and sometimes the wisdom percolates into my brain days after I read/listen to a post. So I am all ears.
Please forgive me if I am wrong... But you have remarried right? How did you meet your W?
It is very likely I will find something wrong with any suggestion anyone makes right now. But while I may disagree - I do listen and sometimes the wisdom percolates into my brain days after I read/listen to a post. So I am all ears.
