Karen, it couldn't hurt could it? As long as the dads don't think they are being painted into a corner.

Example, you in a message to X: "Ry mentioned this the other day... just thought I would share it with you, he doesn't know I'm contacting you..."

this way, if he can great, if he can't or won't, then the kids (even a college grad is still your "kid") won't be disappointed.

Hope it leads to something. \:\)

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