Got the bill for H cell phone, which shows an unpaid balance from May - I guess he took that one out of the mailbox before I saw it.

This bill is from May 7 to June 4, I think, and it shows 57 text messages received and 180 sent during that month - how did he have time to do anything else? And he says that when he's involved in a EA, it doesn't affect our relationship! How can it not, when he's communicating with these people 8 times a day, at least.

He also browsed 12 websites during that time - I can just guess what they were.

I tried to access his account online, but I don't know his PIN and the one I'm familiar with doesn't work. It's not going to do any good, I know, and I'm hoping I can just put the bill beside his computer and leave it there for him to find when he gets back.

Of course, the silence could mean that he's psyching himself up to tell me again that he's leaving.