(((((lodo))))). I am right there with you. You are the better person in this whole situation and if she can't see it then that is her loss. I'll listen if you need to talk.
kat
Yeah, I've been feeling the last couple days that maybe it's not us that are losing out when we divorce, but our WAS. I think we DBers are very cool people and our WAS are messed-up, dysfunctional, immature, (and in my case not very nice). They should be thanking God that they have spouses that are willing to forgive them & stay in the R with them, but they don't realize that.
I mean if my H divorces me I think I will probably go on to have a better R with someone that is more mature, together & hopefully loyal, so who is the one that's losing out? I hope I am not sounding totally conceited but really have been thinking that the last few days... I mean I'm just feeling like we almost should be just feeling sorry for the WAS (although they are being pretty dumb so I guess that makes it harder). Lodo, I hope you forgive me for my weird thoughts, b/c I think the world of your too--and I do think your W is so losing out!!! Karen
