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Why do you believe him now any more than the other 100 times? He is in limbo land and likes it. As soon as he has her back and you start to move on...well, you know the rest
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You're so right SD, there was no offer made on Friday, infact, he didn't even call, as he was on a trip w/OW.

Saturday was the closing day for Little League & the day he was to keep S5 for the 2nd time ever @ his place. I could tell when he showed up that he was going to try & continue the cycle. He said he'd like to pick up S5's thing's for the night later, but I had him take everything with him, so he wouldn't have to come back.
He looked worse than the last time I thought I'd seen him at his worst, like he hadn't slept in a week.

I drove separately, as I had to be somewhere before it ended, & kept my distance. When I left, I said goodbye to S & gave H a small wave.

I could feel him watching me leave the field & just when I was out of eyesight, he called. I guess he was shocked that I was actually leaving.

"You may want to stick around & celebrate w/S5 & me. Oh, never mind, you already have plans, so I'll let you go."

I said, "Okay....Bye."

More of the same yesterday, except when nothing was working, out came the threats of "moving this forward & giving me an offer."
The last was, "You're being very secretive about where you'll be w/S5 after I bring him home, I'm his father & I need to know who he's going to be spending time with."

After no participation from me (amazing the effect!)he said, "That's it, this is all going to blow up in your face. I'm going to give you an offer today."

After all that drama on his part, he shows up, nicer than nice, trying everything he can to engage me.

I asked him if he had anything for me. "No, I'm not going to do that. I won't threaten you anymore."

Wonder how long OW is going to sit still for no filing, no forward movement?

I don't feel caught up in it anymore. Just very calm & happy.
It'll all work out if I don't interfere, is my thought.

Hi L, welcome back! I'll get over to you when I get back from taking S5 to swimming lessons.
Same to Kalni & Nomopo......

Sunny

Last edited by warm&sunny; 06/16/08 08:36 PM.

M-7 yrs
together-8 yrs
S-4yr
S-15yr

Bomb-4/25/07
Sep-same day
me-49
H-49

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