Of course NTE means Happy Camper in addressing his thread, not Dance.
HC - you are quite an amazing woman to be sounding so level headed in this moment of your life. I think you are going to surprise everyone and come out from this mess even better off than you EVER would have been before. The level of dishonesty your husband has shown is something many people just can't get over, and they are scarred for life. But something tells me that you aren't going to be one of those bitter, scarred women. You are going to move forward, in dignity and grace, and start a new life for yourself that will be happy and rewarding.
Hang in there and keep us posted. I hope you have talked to an attorney.
