We all make mistakes. Trust me, I am the queen of them!!! I agree with you that you need to let her face her own financial problems. She needs to see what life without you is like. Sometimes that is the key.
The other thing I have found is ultimately they do resolve their own issues, it is a matter of giving them the time and space. For us, it is hard, because we want so badly to please. For them, sometimes giving them the space is exactly what they need so they can reassess and see what they are missing.
But Jon, I think you are doing fantastic!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
