I remember once obsessing that he shaved before work instead of when he got home. Your mind can really do a number on you.
The urge to snoop lessens. Since I have barely no filters, I confronted on things I thought I saw. And seriously, at least once, it WASN'T there. This was not a trick for you skeptics out there, my mind saw something. I had the phone. I went to show it to him and the number was not the once I'd seen in my first glance. I also finally realized I'd only make him learn how to lie to me better by erasing the calls and messages as he ended the call. Brilliant. Not.
Anyhow, what you're doing seems to be working! You have time to figure this out. I'm glad you're gardening, it's one of my favorite ways to work things out. Nothing like getting the weeds out symbolically and literally.
Had a fabulous weekend crabbing and festival-ing. thanks for asking! I'll update my sitch from the other day after I get the laundry switched around in a few minutes. Hehe, I just know you can't wait to see how the drama unfolded. j/k