One of the reason I won't mention to him about the movie tickets. I know he'll get mad and jump to separate our money. He'll feel like I'm spying on him even though I've ALWAYS kept close tabs on our account.
This is one of the reasons I'm so encouraged by your sitch. My W separated the finances immediately, within 24 hours. Your H still hasn't done that. That's very good. Again, if he really wanted a D, his actions would be very different.
Originally Posted By: ms ladybug
I'm feeling so uncertain about my future, and as a "control freak" I can't handle this. Doesn't God see that? I try to give it to God, but I'm too scared to let go. I'm so scared.
These are great realizations! As a fellow control freak, I don't have easy answers. But you've made the most important step. I'm getting a lot of help at this group, in fact can't wait to go tonight. Should be one at a church in your area if you're interested:
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
