Oh good, you brought this over to your thread so we don't make No_hill crazy.
I've always told people that the reason I've been unsuccessful in relationships is that other people are involved. I have close friends since high school, my first boyfriend and I are still close. That makes me feel capable of having people close to me (outside family members). However, professionally, I'd rather be given my tasks and a deadline - upon completion, I upload to the team. Yeah, I forget my Myers-Briggs but it's something like an introverted extrovert.
Ewww. Just typing that has made me realize a thing or two. This is going to be an interesting thread.....