no news is good news, the drama has ebbed for now, normal interaction with stbx, he's taking care of kids and paying up, so no grief there, almost has his place bought, who knows where he is living now though because I just realized yesterday he's brought back most of his stuff BACK into the spare room he used to use (I told him he could use that room for storage 'til the Nov.,due date.
He might be at ow's or sleeping in his car, I dont' care nor will ask, it's his deal, he told me he was loosing weight and taking sleep meds, I was able to shut up and eat many comments I would've let escape long ago. My life is good and he has the life he's chosen, I don't wish him ill.
My kids well, happy with me, missed him yesterday as he said he had to work, but my family was over and they were busy. My sisters-bless their souls- cleaned my kitchen , brother finished putting up a new cabinet and lights in my bathroom and gave me his near new fridge, dad checked the leak downstairs, my place is looking good, I love them all)))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.