How do I stop obsessing

[lynn97]

Well Puppy that last post wasn't mine, but no worries

I just talked to one of the coaches here and it did help. I do think the boundaries discussion is a good idea, but I'm thinking it may be too soon, especially if she is on the edge.

It's only hurting me to obsess about it. Doing something about it feels like the right thing to do, but wouldn't be the 180 that I need to focus on with her now. Even if I bring up the agreement and say that maybe we should clarify she's gonna see that as me asking about the relationship. I'm not going to do anything until our talk day on Sunday anyway. I got some good advice from the DB coach and I'm gonna use that. If she brings it up, or talks about it, or tells me that she is having one, then I'll have to go from there. Either way even if it is all true and it is out in the open what does it matter. I need to GAL and focus on that. If I do that correctly she will come around eventually...I hope.

Lynn