I know you are totally right. It's about HIS character, HIS moral compass. I can honestly say that I would never have an affair, and I have had plenty of opportunities (not bragging, I was in the recording industry and had a lot of opportunities). It was never something I could do or even FELT like doing.
That doesn't make me a saint, and I have my part in the marriage, but what really hurts it how FAST he wants things to come to a conclusion. New Girl, Add Water, New Life.
I DO feel vindicated in the fact that his little rouse to get Isabella via social services and court (this was about revenge and money by the way) didn't work. He even admitted it failed. HIS own lawyer told him enough is enough. For that I feel vindicated. For that I know I wasn't "crazy" and am a good mother and deserve to be her mother.
It's just his "care-free" attitude and how "happy" he act around me right now (with his new ring she gave him, to boot) that kills me. I know it shouldn't (my mom, literally just yelled at me to stop crying and get on with it). It's such a slap in the face to the years we have together and our daughter and the time when she was sick (had to have surgery) and everything else. like I'm nothing now. I was his wife, mother of his child, and now he can't get rid of me fast enough.
