Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
Maybe I'm speaking from the place where I got burned...but I'd be very careful about saying things like you are staying in Dallas or whatever. Because if she's fishing to see if you'd be willing to move, she may feel you shot her down.

That being said, I don't think you did.

Sounds like things are still improving overall for you.


I've been thinking about this now that it's a week later. Maybe she was fishing?

When I was planning to get a job in Houston and move, she said that if I did that, her family would get a restraining order against me. I can't believe she actually said that - this was back at the end of March while doing taxes.

Comments like that along with my C's strong advice not to live closer to her family (if we do stay married) effectively killed that idea. I can't figure out why she's asking this now though.


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK