I'll never make love to a redhead or a blonde. I'll never make love to a woman with a southern accent, or small breasts, or freckles
Wow. I caught your thread title and thought I could offer an answer to both our problems, I have a LOT of work to get done, and H that won't help with the work or the sex! But then I read the quoted line and I guess it will never happen between us and it's not because of the bold print item. Anyway, just kidding.
As for moving to another bedroom, I advise caution and really think about how this will affect you too. I'm not saying don't do it, just saying to think about your emotions and feelings by taking away the limited physical connection you do have.
WCW,
I recommended this because SillyOldBear indicated he was struggling with laying next to her with no intimacy. I also think he needs to be less available to her, and take back some of the control of who initiates sex in their relationship.
But mostly, I just think he needs to do something dramatically different -- a 180.
Anyway, just kidding.