I get mixed signals a lot. One days shes reaching to give me a hug the next she just hopes in her car and drives off after we do something. we have no kidds and dont live together anymore so cslling her to ask her to do something is the only way I keep contact.

she called last night to see what time a local church had mass. I missed the call but called her right back and told her the time. she said " well ok thanks" and the call was over. she knows I want to go to church with her, but the invite didnt come and didnt ask. I thought after she was ating closer things would be diffrent, but they feel back to square one now. she called me to say back off, am i not allowed a chance TO back of or show change?