so h and I officially drafted up custody agreement with lawyers. she'll finish out school year next week and then go with him during the week for summer camp (I'll have her on weekends). then she will return the 3rd week of August for school here (monday through friday with me, weekends with H). both attorneys have received agreement. h's attorney is calling the court to pull the petition and make this arrangment binding.
h and I had a R talk for the first time in a while. he just admitted to me that when he met OW it made him realize that he was unhappy and that there was "something better" for him out there. he readily admits that he would have stayed here and that he didn't think he was "unhappy" until he met her. knife in my heart.