And then last night she was on the phone with one of her friends, from way back. When I went into the room I realized she was holding back tears. i asked what was wrong, and she just hugged me tight. I mean I have not gotten a hug like this in years from her. It seems one of her friends that has been pretty much messing around on her husband found out that her husband was having an affair of his own. And it was posted all over myspace, this girl is now in a psyciatric ward down in Ft. Hood, Texas. So the discussion between me and my wife went something like this. When she told me what had happened I was like well karma is a B****. Then my wife was like yeah I know but is it more than Karma, is this just to people who are not happy in their relationship, and how is their situaiton any different from ours. I replied with well it obvious that there not happy together, but they have two kids. My thing is why was it ok when she was messing around, and it is all funny between yall. And now it is known that he has been doing the same and she cant handle it. I went on to say that as her counselor put it, all marriages go through crisis, but it is the way you handle it that makes a differance in the outcome. I went on to ask they never been to marriage counseling or anything to try and correct their problems where I sort of feel we are trying to correct things between us. And my wife agreed she said that she believes the retrouvaille weekend will be a start for us, and also with our trip to el paso we may get to spend a little time together. Because yesterday she mentioned that we should drive to Riodoso, NM. And I replied well thats a long trip with the kids and she said Im saying without them. My mom will keep them, she already said she would. So now as you guessed it, I'm more confused than I was before the weekend. Dont know what to believe as true or MLC. But I do know she was holding me very tight as she cried and, she had a look in her face of guilt, I saw that very clearly. JACK IM WAITING ON YOUR RESPONSE
