Thank you steelersfan for your help. I really want to believe that OW means nothing to him but it just seems like their relationship is going so well that it will never end. My H sleeps at her house like once a month and they went to Atlantic city together and she has met his family and he has met hers and the few times that he takes our 4 year old outit's with her too. Why would he do all of that if it wasn't serious? Also he spends the holidays with her and Christmas was the worst because I thought that we would have a nice Christmas together with our S but he left that morning to be with her. It's just killing me that he has a girlfriend. I really want to believe that ow is just a bandaid and I really hope that you are right but they've been together for a year now. Also steelersfan I would love to know if when your H had OW how long it lasted and if it was as serious as you thought at the time. Also I would love to know if while they are with OW if they ever think about their W or if they ever miss their W? Thanks again for all of your help Steelersfan you are great.
