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Hi Husband! Just got kind of caught up again! I hope you are taking good care of yourself. Think we will try the Safari West also. Happy Father's Day to you. You deserve it so stay positive. Please stop thinking about the OM. I am not sure about the status of that but from what I do know about women, we operate differently than men usually and lack of intimacy does not necessarily mean we are with someone else. We have oh so many reasons not to sleep with our husbands even if we love them and are attracted to them! Take care of your health and try not to be nervous about Retro. There is only so much we can control. Just stay positive and know everything will turn out alright.


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Thanks Everyone...

WE HAVE ARRIVED...

The weather is ok; Son LOVED the games I got him. We went to the store and got Hagen dazes ice cream, played a few games then I SHAVED my Beard. (Those that I have e mail to us get Pictures...

Ok a Special note,

I have been giving Soooo Much space I almost forgot what she looked like... Then last night after dinner I forgot and gave her a kiss on the cheek after dinner telling her the macaroni salad she made was great....
Well when son and I left she was standing on my side of the jeep and I felt that awkward moment when I wanted to give her a good bye kiss but I did not AND THEN she leaned in the window and gave me a Kiss on the lips and said have fun............SHE GAVE ME A KISS....Who needs Viagra.... My little solder was at attention for half the trip..............
Thank goodness because I was not feeling very well about my trip now I can enjoy it.

Well I need to go play I will write ya tomorrow
Later
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Husband,
Awww...congrats on the kiss. I know it meant a lot to you. She has came a long way. Patience has definitely been your friend.

Glad that you and your son are having a great time so far. DD and I just got back from vacation. We had a really nice time.

Hugs, Yoyo




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
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I tell ya Dr. Love....that little lady has been doing some thinking. I know none of us know the future, but I think she is starting to see some light. I really have very high hopes for Retro. All along your biggest problems.....and I mean BOTH of you....has been finding a way to communicate with one another. I am just so excited because I think you are going to get taught this and then your M will just start to move forward so fast.

I having been going through a really rough patch recently and yours and Yoyo's and SallyM's sitchs are just keeping me going at the moment....for goodness sakes I am just tearing up in my eyes thinking about it...(well I don't have a soldier and I am a chick!! ;\) )

Have a wonderful trip.

BTW...about the pressie thing....I am sure your W didn't mean any harm in giving your son something for his birthday and not saying anything...I sometimes do that because I feel guilty or even because the kids enjoy the illicitness of the secrecy....if you get what I mean. What I am trying to say is that it wasn't done with the intention of slighting you.

I am sure your W has massive respect for the way you have handled all this....and whilst she hasn't been able to work you have stopped smoking and held so many things together....you are a true man \:\)


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ditto saffie...

Great on the kiss!!!


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WOOOO HOOOOO!!!

Cool on the kiss. oOunds like you are on your way H.
Hope you had a great Fathers Day.

JAK

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Update time...

The room we got has this HUGE shower. (Would be GREAT fun for two adults. BUT first day here kind of sucked. Temp only got up to 61 and there was a little drizzle.
We went out and after about an hour found the "treasure" we buried last year... Could not find the log that we carved our names in. we flew is radio controlled plane until he crashed it and broke the propeller.
Right now he is on the bed playing video games and I am here drinking bud light with lime. Tomorrow we are going to the movies to see Indiana joins. Hopefully the weather will clear up. The last two years I came up here with him I would hide in a portable bathroom to sneak a smoke. Just for jollies I went to that Bathroom and found two smokes I left above the door frame from last year… DON’T worry they were pretty gross.
Well got to get back to the “games” hope to have some pictures for ya all soon.

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