Hi sh- I think it was a great gesture for you to get the picture frame and picture for the kids to give to your H. I have done the same thing in the past for my XH without any reciprocation from him. I have tried to teach my children to be giving...unfortunately now that they are teenagers they don't think much beyond themselves (mostly my S at the moment)...but I am hoping that when they finally mature something will have sunk in! =/
So other than today's emotional stuff, how are you doing?