infidelity

[hoosiermama]

Well, I emailed my sil, the psychiatrist. She said she hadn't replied to my previous email (in which I expressed concerns because of H's personality changes) because she didn't know what to say. Hmmm. And she cannot "interfere" with his medications because she has to keep her family and work life separate. That's never been an issue before; I can think if several instances in which she's recommended a particular medication or discussed whether a particular problem may be medication-related. I would imagine this is the last I'll hear from her. Geez, I wonder what awful things he's said about me to result in this cut-off.

The hard part for me is that his family is my only family. I'm an only child, both parents are long dead and I haven't had any contact with extended family since childhood. I love my nieces and nephews, and if this doesn't resolve I'll lose them too. Obviously I can't count on any support from my in-laws. His parents don't know yet about anything; they will have a cow, and then they will cut me off too. This sucks on so many different levels.