The Good, the Bad, and the Funny One Year Update

[mkultra]

Thanks Lola. Sorry I am not on here like I used to be DAILY!!! I am busy busy busy GALing and working the single parent route with two jobs now and no child support.

Happy Father's Day to all! I had a change of heart and decided to take the kids to see their Daddy at work. I usually avoid him like the plague and stay dark unless necessary but he was sooo happy that I made the gesture to see him with the kids.

It is funny. I could tell his coworkers were shocked to see me. I am way cuter aND YOUNGER LOOKING than my STBXH now because he looks so drained after his MLC and my PMA and GAL makes me look 25 lbs better and 10 years younger. You all know what I mean.

Surviving an affair is like getting a total life makeover, am I right?

MORE GOSSIP on H's affair. Well his OW ended it with him about 6 months ago and now she is pregnant and engaged to someone else!! How must my H feel about throwing away a marriage and family for some flighty kid who gets knocked up by some other flighty kid on the street?? I know the affair was not the only reason our marriage failed, that it was just a byproduct, but still. My H claimed he wanted to follow passion in his life, that he wanted to start over with someone new. Pullleeeaase! If you are going through this you are not alone. Your spouse will also probably regret their affair so please do not do anything to prolong their affairs. Stay out of it. Let it die a natural death. Stay attractive and positive!!

Good Luck Everyone. I know how hard it is to lose a soul mate, the love of your life and have to feel tormented by the fact that you have to see them all the time for the sake of the kids but stay positive!!!