Most A's do not last with these MLCers. They are bandaids and cover up the hurt, depression, confusion etc...that they are feeling.

Your H's OW must have a self esteem lower than the slime in a drain pipe!! He lives at home with you and your S, yet she waits around for him to see her??

These OW's are desperate women. My H told me that he realized he missed me (I guess the "honeymoon with ow was over)and saw that I was happy without him...

Read MrsH's threads...she is in NY and adultery can play a big part in the settlement of the D...

I know this is hard, I thought my H was going to be with ow and her kids forever...it did not last and H has come home.

I DB'd like crazy and finally felt ok with myself...try to do things for you. You did not cause him to do this and you can't fix him either. It is time to take care of yourself!!

You said H lives at home? he still introduced OW to your son and his family members?? Has anyone said anything to him?