Hi Lynn...if it makes you feel any better, we all say and do the wrong things at time. Just jump back on the band wagon.
I think the best piece of advice I can offer is to take this time to work on you. That seems very difficult at times, because we all want to make the WAS feel better. But you matter too. It matters that you are hurt, and confused, and want something more than what can be offered. The trick is not to talk to your W about that, but someone else. The best remedy I had was seeing a C. In the matter of four weeks, I feel so much better. That may be what you need right now. Also, the people here understand exactly what you are going through, because we are ALL going through it or have been through it. So when you need that extra boost, post. You will get valuable understanding in a way that no one else can give it.
(((Lynn))) one more thing...remember to breath.
Lola
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..