In actuality, the pastor spent all his time and energy trying to figure out which one of us to excommunicate.
G, I know you've shared that before, and I really believe that pastor was horrible and not the normal pastor!!! Both pastors, the church I used to go to (H still goes there sometimes) and the one I attend now, the pastors are very supportive. But I do think, that if you have a small-group situation in the church, like people in sunday school and everything that can be just as helpful.
I do think you should consider trying again with another church, b/c I believe if the pastor/church is a good one they will be extremely supportive and non-judgmental! And I couldn't have made it without my church friends (and theatre friends & DB friends of course). I do think God is present in my life, b/c I think I've had a lot of blessings in the past year despite some negative stuff. I'm so sorry that you had that bad experience!!! Karen
