Number 8, still too late for DB to work.

[seekpeaceofmind]

Passive/aggressive is so hard to deal with. Part of it seems to be this "all or nothing", "win or lose" way of looking at things. At least, that's what I see w/ my P/A H and it is so frustrating not to have a chance to deal with things - that the whole thing is totally one-sided - all of the issues have been named, debated, and settled in his mind before you even get a chance to hear about them.

I haven't seen your earlier threads, but just reading your first one here, I'm really sorry for your sitch. I know what you mean about the hurt increasing with each day - I keep waiting for the part of this journey where I start to feel stronger and better about myself as a person. When your M falls apart, time changes. It's like when you are a kid and you think a year is a long time. You start out your M crisis thinking of timeframes - how long you can cope, when it should be "over" and then your concept of time starts to shift. Oh, you think, I've already done this for a year? How much longer will it take? It's great that you can at least affirm for yourself that you know you can get thru this, that you know you will overcome. You don't need to know how, just have faith that you will. Do sleep, rest, build your strength for the changes and struggles ahead.