He's so deluded in ways. He thinks this is going to be easy, that's we will just get along. I'm going to NYC in a couple of weeks and there's an open water swim very early on the the morning I leave. A few weeks ago he asked if when I was leaving, if would be able to watch them early and he'd just come over afterwards. I told him I thought it would work.

In my quest to busy myself somehow, I'm looking at things to do while in NYC and double-checked my flight. I won't be able to watch the kids so I emailed him.

Just got a reply, "No biggie, haven't been swimming enough anyway. We'll take you to the airport." It's a 45 minute drive.

There is where I tell him, "No thank you, I'll get there on my own."


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.