Glad your weekend was uneventful and somewhat positive. I just got an e-mail from W asking about the property settlement. She had to end-off with, "Please just let me go."
What is up with that? Why is she so concerned about what I do or whether I am holding on? I haven't even contacted her, except for the friendship/anniversary card. She makes it sound like I am still begging and pleading. Could it be she wants me to give her some sort of green light, so she will feel exonerated?
All I know is I am being true to myself, trying to keep my mouth shut and am validating her. It just bums me out, especially when my house is being refinanced, etc. But she keeps saying stuff like this. I can't even go completely dark because of the paperwork and property settlement.
What does she want? Does she want me to get pissed and "break it off"? I have been friendly and upbeat, so do I have to do a 180 and act unfriendly some how? What kind of prick would I be then?It's not my style.
I refused to give into her and say everything she is doing is great. I simply respond by saying that I cannot stop her and that "my feelings haven't changed". Opinions?
Me: 46 Second Marriage WAW: 38 First Marriage Separated: Dec. 2007 W Filed for D: Feb. 2008 For more hope, click: http://rejoiceministries.org/
