I'm crushed. It's Father's Day and how can I celebrate him? He's a father who can't sacrifice for his children.
Gosh, I understand this emotion so much. And my H has chosen today to be the Bomb day for our girls. Yes tonight we inform them that he is moving out tomorrow. I don't know why they think it's ALL about them. At least that is what I feel with my H right now. I love him so much, and desparately want to repair this, but like you I have anger. And like you, I resent that he can't put himself aside for a little while to really work WITH me, even it's it's not for US, but for the kids.
Do I want to stay together JUST for the kids no? But I really don't care WHAT is his motivation for doing the work, I just want him to join the fight. And it's sad, and frustrating all at the same time.
I'm so sorry. This has been a horrible day for me as well, especailly knowing what is looming when they all come back from their fun day of fishing. "Great, hope you guys all had a GREAT day. Daddy is leaving us tomorrow. Happy Father's Day!"
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
