LMAO, here's some tweezers for the splinters, cause you're gonna get another whack, from me.
Why would you put a time limit on this. Holy Crap. This is your family we're talking about.
My H said some DAM comment about 8 months ago, that he thought we should give it 12 months, then if I wasn't "crazy in love with him again, we should D". Do you think I can get that out of my head. WTF!!!! I give this man 17 flipping years to get his head on straight, & he's going to give me 12 months. Eeeeewwwww I get pissed again just thinking about it.
Take the time line off the table. hugs.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.