for better,for worse,for (what)ever

[Evie]

Seek, don't punish yourself like this. If our H's cannot/will not talk to us and share their feelings, we cannot accept the total blame. Yes it takes 2 and now we know how much pain that they are in we can look to our own faults, but we are NOT to FULLY blame.

Keep connecting with the ladies from the support group, its making the effort thats half the battle.

Our H's right now are on the mother ship, if and when they come back we will be much stronger woman, who will set boundaries and recognise the symptons if it happens again. Keep working on you for now, concentrate your energies on you.

We can do this....

(((((SEEK))))))

X Evie.